When you try to control how things around you work, all you will get is exasperation because you can't control all the people, things or circumstances. If something is inevitable, don't force it to change. Change your perspective. Be accepting. Sometimes changes help you evolve.
When you spread positive energy, it comes back manifolds to you. When you uplift others without agenda, you find yourself evolving. Positivity holds power and the rewards you get are beyond comprehension. Create happiness where there's none. Be the blessing the world needs.
You can't ignore affect of your environment. But you can't hold it responsible for your lacks & failures. You always have choice. You decide if you want to stay miserable, blaming people & situations or you decide to confront your fears, learn from them & be the best you possible
Don't give up on yourself ever. If you find no hope & inspiration coming from outside, be your own cheerleader. It's not for others to believe in you. You have to be confident in the choices you make, even if the path is uncertain. Keep walking & you'll find new doorways opening.
Never underestimate a cycle breaker. Not only did they experience years of generational trauma, but they stood in the face of the trauma & fought to say, "This ends with me." This is brave. This is powerful. This comes at a significant cost. Never underestimate a cycle breaker.
Hate no one, no matter how much they wronged you. Live humbly, no matter how wealthy you become. Think positively, no matter how hard your life is. Give much even if you have been given little. Forgive all, especially yourself and never stop praying for the best for everyone.
Don't make others' opinions a focus of your life. Focus on your own needs, desires, happiness. Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you're just simply yourself. World keeps spinning whether people understand you or not so why not make this next trip around the sun about you.
Happiness is allowing yourself to be perfectly fine with "what is" rather than wishing for & worrying about "what is not." This means your suffering only ever occurs when you resist how things are. You can't control everything that happens to you. You can control how you respond.
You aren't here to fill space or be background character in someone else's movie. Nothing would be same if you didn't exist. Every place you've ever been & every person you've ever met would be different without you. We're all connected & affected by decisions of those around us.
There comes a point when you let go & stop trying with some people. If they want you in their life, they'll find a way to include you & not ignore your presence. Let them leave your life quietly. We think it's hard to let go till we do it. Then we ask- Why didn't I do this sooner